Your relationship healthy if you can answer the following questions.
Before you make a serious commitment to be happy ever after ask each other these questions!
- Did I become a better person after meeting him/her?
- Can I be really me?
- Are we sharing the same values?
- Do I learn something with him/her? Am I grow with my partner?
- Do I get support and understanding?
- Did she/he inspire me on achieving something? Did she/he inspire me on reaching my dreams?
- Do we dream and planning together our future?
And here are some key points to make each other’s life easier 😉
Seek for a feedback. Sometimes we want to help so hard and be such a good person, that we don’t even pay attention to feelings of our partner. Just simply ask once in a while – “Was this day good for you? Did you enjoy? Were you interested?” No matter if you are traveling together or simply do something, always ask for a feedback.
Forgive unperfectness. He/she is not from your fantasies. These are real people. They don’t have to be exactly like you imagine. They have their own feelings! Forgive them moments of being sad or week. Don’t judge and don’t push them harder that they can handle. After their failure such words as – “Next time you’ll do better! I believe in you!” will put them in a bigger pressure than they are. It won’t help at all. Respect their feelings.
Don’t think he/she can read you. If you have something in mind – TELL THEM! Be sincere and clear. Help your partner to understand you better.
Improve yourself. Just be better. Yes, you are an amazing, beautiful, and smart person just the way you are… but it’s always the room to work with.